BOND?! Yeah, Bond! Imagine James Bond having a wife, a wife who can match him in charm, looks, sophistication, specialty, charisma, action and a sense of purpose and yet she was there to support him. Imagine what these two would be able to do, can you just imagine what that kind of combination would be or do?, it would have to be a match from heaven.
I am always asking God why and what can be done about the many problems of relationship and marriage, i began to think about marriage as i normally do and different thoughts began to go through my mind. WHAT IS SO SPECIAL ABOUT MARRIAGE?
Marriage is an institution, an institution starting with a MAN and a WOMAN, that's Gods original plan, man and woman. if it was just man, the issue of marriage would never had come up, but with the woman, it was something different entirely, it was not a mistake, it was a deliberate action and so anything other than this, is not from God and definitely from the pit of hell, it CANT be a man and a man, or a woman and a woman, this is not up for debate! so with the woman, something very profound happened, the bible said and God blessed them, now read the content of the prayer: Be FRUITFUL, MULTIPLY and REPLENISH the earth. (Gen 1:28)
The marriage institution is a living institution: it breathes, moves and grows, while you may not see the mouth, i tell you it has its food. When a man and a woman come together to be husband and wife, immediately that connection creates a living institution called marriage, but this can only be achieved with one thing.....THE BOND! God said for this reason shall a man leave his parents and cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh (Gen 2:24). Many people get married but they are not truly bonded, its true and obvious, because if two people are really bonded, no one would have a different agenda, no one would try to pay each other back, no one would put his/her needs before the others', no one would try to dominate, or intentionally hurt the other.
Marriage is an institution that has so much power, the power to be fruitful, multiply and replenish and this not just talking about giving birth alone, it also concerns your health, finances and everything that pertains to your lives. the truth is you cannot really be fruitful or multiply or replenish if you do not Bond, isn't it funny how one shall chase a thousand and two shall chase ten thousands, that's the power of multiplication and being fruitful.
There is so much one person can do, but there is much more two people can do, we are yet to see what two people who are truly bonded can do, we are yet to see the manifestation of a man and woman who above every other thing have decided to cleave no matter what may come, the world is yet to see the full impact of a real Mr. and Mrs. Bond.
The Real Mr. and Mrs. Bond don't give up on the living institution they created, they never let sickness, lack, misunderstandings get in the way of their institution, they know they have come together to achieve more, they focus more on their union, rather than their problem, they hold hands to fight sickness, lack, weakness, misunderstandings and every external enemy, they protect their turf, they have their guards on. They also feed their union with its need: communication, sex, friendship, openness and trust, respect, honor, appreciation, gratitude, they will go to any means to get new recipe for their union, just to make sure it is well nourished, they understand the impact of God and live by his words and dictate, they understand that they cant allow their union, ever remain the same, they strive to constantly make it grow, these guys know what they want, they are not confused: they know they want the relationship to work, not just work, but be healthy. these guys are truly bonded and so they understand that, its not about two people, but of one: the combination of them both.
You know what? these guys don't try to be fruitful or multiply, they are fruitful and they multiply, everything around them has the blessing of God, because they are what he wants. I know Mr. and Mrs. bond are not common in our world, but i can tell you, they do exist, and you can decide to be one. you can start by asking God to help you and your spouse become Mr. and Mrs. Bond.
I am always asking God why and what can be done about the many problems of relationship and marriage, i began to think about marriage as i normally do and different thoughts began to go through my mind. WHAT IS SO SPECIAL ABOUT MARRIAGE?
Marriage is an institution, an institution starting with a MAN and a WOMAN, that's Gods original plan, man and woman. if it was just man, the issue of marriage would never had come up, but with the woman, it was something different entirely, it was not a mistake, it was a deliberate action and so anything other than this, is not from God and definitely from the pit of hell, it CANT be a man and a man, or a woman and a woman, this is not up for debate! so with the woman, something very profound happened, the bible said and God blessed them, now read the content of the prayer: Be FRUITFUL, MULTIPLY and REPLENISH the earth. (Gen 1:28)
The marriage institution is a living institution: it breathes, moves and grows, while you may not see the mouth, i tell you it has its food. When a man and a woman come together to be husband and wife, immediately that connection creates a living institution called marriage, but this can only be achieved with one thing.....THE BOND! God said for this reason shall a man leave his parents and cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh (Gen 2:24). Many people get married but they are not truly bonded, its true and obvious, because if two people are really bonded, no one would have a different agenda, no one would try to pay each other back, no one would put his/her needs before the others', no one would try to dominate, or intentionally hurt the other.
Marriage is an institution that has so much power, the power to be fruitful, multiply and replenish and this not just talking about giving birth alone, it also concerns your health, finances and everything that pertains to your lives. the truth is you cannot really be fruitful or multiply or replenish if you do not Bond, isn't it funny how one shall chase a thousand and two shall chase ten thousands, that's the power of multiplication and being fruitful.
There is so much one person can do, but there is much more two people can do, we are yet to see what two people who are truly bonded can do, we are yet to see the manifestation of a man and woman who above every other thing have decided to cleave no matter what may come, the world is yet to see the full impact of a real Mr. and Mrs. Bond.
The Real Mr. and Mrs. Bond don't give up on the living institution they created, they never let sickness, lack, misunderstandings get in the way of their institution, they know they have come together to achieve more, they focus more on their union, rather than their problem, they hold hands to fight sickness, lack, weakness, misunderstandings and every external enemy, they protect their turf, they have their guards on. They also feed their union with its need: communication, sex, friendship, openness and trust, respect, honor, appreciation, gratitude, they will go to any means to get new recipe for their union, just to make sure it is well nourished, they understand the impact of God and live by his words and dictate, they understand that they cant allow their union, ever remain the same, they strive to constantly make it grow, these guys know what they want, they are not confused: they know they want the relationship to work, not just work, but be healthy. these guys are truly bonded and so they understand that, its not about two people, but of one: the combination of them both.
You know what? these guys don't try to be fruitful or multiply, they are fruitful and they multiply, everything around them has the blessing of God, because they are what he wants. I know Mr. and Mrs. bond are not common in our world, but i can tell you, they do exist, and you can decide to be one. you can start by asking God to help you and your spouse become Mr. and Mrs. Bond.
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