A man who beats a woman might not be able to express in words the reason why he does so, but it is embedded in a philosophy, such as '' a man must always make a woman submit''. Such man will never change no matter how sorry he may be, simply because there is a philosophy underneath that produces such actions, to change this man, you would have to first help him change his philosophy.
Anytime people hear philosophy, they immediately think about the ancient Greeks and its famous thinkers like Aristotle and Plato, but that's not all there is about philosophy, for definitions you can simply click on Google, there are numerous. To narrow it down to my aim, lets see philosophy as the underlining reason why you do what you do.
Everybody has got a reason for doing what they do, but most people can not lay a firm hold on these reasons and so they tell you, this is who I am, but the question is; why do you act the way you do? If a woman never feels obliged to help a man financially, it is so because somewhere she has a philosophy that says a man should take total financial responsibility of his home and if he fails, somehow she resents him and think he is not capable of being a man.
it is important to know the philosophy you have that creates the actions you portray in your life and relationship, you should have a philosophy that guides every area of your life : relationship, career, life, business...For me here are some of the philosophy that guides me:
PERSONAL: STRIVE FOR EXELLENCE IN EVERTHING I DO
RELATIONSHIP: ALWAYS CONSIDER MY PARTNER BEFORE ME
CARRER: ALWAYS GO THE EXTRA MILE
BUSINESS: PROFER SOLUTIONS TO NEEDS BEFORE THINKING OF PROFIT.....
If you find out you have a negative philosophy that produces wrong actions, it is time to kick it out and create a new one, write out the new one and read it every time, don't just read it, begin to practice it, its very easy to become what you look at regularly, so don't stop till you become it.
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Anytime people hear philosophy, they immediately think about the ancient Greeks and its famous thinkers like Aristotle and Plato, but that's not all there is about philosophy, for definitions you can simply click on Google, there are numerous. To narrow it down to my aim, lets see philosophy as the underlining reason why you do what you do.
Everybody has got a reason for doing what they do, but most people can not lay a firm hold on these reasons and so they tell you, this is who I am, but the question is; why do you act the way you do? If a woman never feels obliged to help a man financially, it is so because somewhere she has a philosophy that says a man should take total financial responsibility of his home and if he fails, somehow she resents him and think he is not capable of being a man.
it is important to know the philosophy you have that creates the actions you portray in your life and relationship, you should have a philosophy that guides every area of your life : relationship, career, life, business...For me here are some of the philosophy that guides me:
PERSONAL: STRIVE FOR EXELLENCE IN EVERTHING I DO
RELATIONSHIP: ALWAYS CONSIDER MY PARTNER BEFORE ME
CARRER: ALWAYS GO THE EXTRA MILE
BUSINESS: PROFER SOLUTIONS TO NEEDS BEFORE THINKING OF PROFIT.....
If you find out you have a negative philosophy that produces wrong actions, it is time to kick it out and create a new one, write out the new one and read it every time, don't just read it, begin to practice it, its very easy to become what you look at regularly, so don't stop till you become it.
Thank you for reading, kindly drop a comment.
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